Soul to soul—this is your gentle reminder: your loved ones in the spirit world are not gone, and they are certainly not judging you. They continue to watch over you with love, encouragement, and support, and your connection with them is closer than you may realize.

Yet so many of the worries people carry about life after death come from misunderstandings that can block us from truly feeling their presence. This week, we’re clearing up the 5 Myths That Block Your Connection With Loved Ones in Spirit—insights that bring comfort, healing, and a deeper sense of spirit connection.

You’ll hear about:
– Why you’re not bothering your loved ones when you think of them or talk to them
– Why they’re not judging your choices from the other side
– Why they don’t know your exact future—and why that’s actually a blessing
– The truth that nobody is stuck or trapped in limbo
– And why your loved ones have not abandoned you, even if you don’t always sense them near

By the end of this episode, you’ll feel reassured that the love and spirit connection you share with your people in spirit is eternal, unshakable, and bigger than you may even realize.

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Episode Transcript:

Joy, hey, beautiful soul, welcome to spirit speakeasy. I'm Joy Giovanni, joyful medium. I'm a working psychic medium, energy healer and spiritual gifts mentor. This podcast is like a seat at the table in a secret club, but with mediums, mystics and the spiritual luminaries of our time. So come behind the velvet ropes with me and see inside my world as I chat insider style with profoundly gifted souls, we go deep, share juicy stories, laugh a lot, and it wouldn't be a speakeasy without great insider secrets and tips. You might even learn that you have some gifts of your own so step inside the spirit. Speak Easy. Hey, beautiful soul. Welcome in for another episode of spirit speakeasy today, we are going to talk about the five biggest misconceptions about life after death. Consider this episode a soul to soul, gentle reminder that your loved ones in the spirit world are not gone in any way, and they're also not judging you. They continue to watch over you with love, with encouragement and with support. In fact, so many of the worries people carry about life after death are based on misunderstandings beliefs that can actually get in the way of feeling connected to those we love. So in this episode, we're going to clear up five of the biggest misconceptions about life after death, why you're not bothering your loved ones when you think of them or talk to them from the other side, why they're not judging you or your choices from heaven, why they don't happen to know your exact future, and why that's actually not a bad thing. We'll talk about the truth that no one is actually stuck or trapped in some sort of limbo between this world and the other. We're going to get into that and why your loved ones have definitely not abandoned you, even if you can't always sense them nearby. So by the end of this conversation, my hope is that you'll feel reassured, comforted, maybe have some clarity if you have had some of these five misconceptions yourself, and of course, reminded that the love that you share with those who have already crossed over to the spirit world hasn't gone anywhere. It's alive. It's present. And your love, as well as their souls, continue on, just in a different way, guiding you for the rest of your days. So let's get into this. First of these five misconceptions, you're not bothering them. I want to dispel this misconception in a way, a lot of people have this idea that our loved ones are either sitting in some like special heavenly board meeting room that they can't get out of to come see us or come visit us, or that they're in these like classrooms, that the doors are locked and they're in a faraway place, very busy On the other side, too busy to check in. And the truth is, their souls are not bound by time and space, the same way that we experience it here, when we're in a physical body, their souls have the flexibility to move around once. We're not limited in a physical body. We can even be in more than one place at a time, which we're going to talk about in just a few minutes. The truth is, Love is an eternal bond, and when you think of your loved one, it naturally calls their soul close. So when they pop into your mind, they're already right beside you, sharing time, space, love, energy with you right in that moment, and it's a soul to soul connection that we have that is facilitated through the love that we still share. You know, we all know that matter, energy doesn't disappear, it just changes form. But the same is true of love. It doesn't disappear, it might just change form. The love that we share is still real. You don't even have to schedule an appointment with your loved ones. The connection is natural and effortless, and just thinking of them brings them close to you, and they can spend time with you whenever they choose and whenever you choose. I like to think of it like a conversation with someone very close to you. You don't have to shout, you don't have to talk out loud to them wherever you go. It really is a heart to heart or soul to soul communication. I mean your energetic heart, not your physical heart, but it really opens the door just when you think of them, they're present. Spirit people don't have to travel to reach you. They're not in some far off place. They're already near. The spirit world is just an unseen world within this world. I really feel like certain parts of quantum physics are getting us a little closer. To our understanding of this with their the ideas around dimensional realities, because everything's existing right here right now. They're very present with us in the here and now, and you're not bothering them. They reiterate it through readings in different ways, over and over. I'm thinking of a specific client story with this one where I had a client, she had lost a child, and the child was, you know, an older teen, early 20s, when they passed, and it had been several years, many years, and as I was doing a reading for this client, when their kiddo started to communicate and share details from the spirit world. They were so relieved. And they even said to me, Oh, I'm so relieved I had another medium several years ago tell me that they couldn't connect to my child because my child had already moved on to something else. They were too busy. They were doing something else. And I am here to tell you that that is not the case. They can be learning and having adventures and exploring on the other side, but they can also be close with you, with your soul, in any given moment, and again, you're not bothering them. So that is Misconception Number One. Misconception Number two, this might come as a shock to some people. They are not judging you from the other side. Spirit always comes through with love, not criticism or judgment in the way we think of it, in our human mind, they might joke with you and acknowledge something you're doing that they wouldn't have maybe approved of when they were here in physical form. They might acknowledge a challenge that you experienced, or something you might perceive as a mistake that happened in your life. So they they of course, could acknowledge it. They can know about that, but it's always coming from a place of understanding, of love, and never from judgment. And that's true even if the version of them that you experienced in the physical meaning, if you had a person in your life that was very judgmental, let's just say, when they cross over to the other side, they become more of the full soul version of themselves, without the human complications and challenges they see from a soul perspective, rather than from only our limited human perspective. So that means that they understand deeply the emotions of your struggles, the reason behind choices, whether they roll out to be a positive choice or challenging choice, from the other side, they can understand why we're making the choices that we're making, and even the pain that we've carried as a result of choices, for example, they don't show up like in judgment or wanting to lecture us in a in a way that feels mean and harsh. They show up with compassion. Judgment really is a human construct. On the other side, it's about growth, healing, understanding, love. So when a loved one connects or spends time with you or visits you, whether it's through a medium, or whether it's just in your own day to day life. The quote, unquote message, or what they would want to share is about encouragement, not condemnation. They don't have that single minded perspective. And I've even had this be communicated during readings in what might even feel like some very simple ways. I'm thinking of this family that all chose to get some version of matching tattoos. I'm trying to remember the exact story. I don't know that they each had the exact same thing, but they each had a tattoo that represented this matriarch of the family who had passed away. So the next, you know, lower generations all decided to get something in honor of her. Well, when she was here, the way she communicated it in the reading, she was not the biggest fan of tattoos. She believed that you shouldn't mark your body. And she had just some strong ideas and feelings
about specifically, tattoos, and she communicated during the reading that well, in her time, when she was in her adult years, you know, culturally, the assumptions were different, and tattoos were maybe not so acceptable then, and that she was working from an old perspective, right, a perspective that maybe the current 2025, or, you know, early 2020s we have a different perspective in our cultures and societies some of the time, not always. There are still certainly cultures and societies that frown upon. It, but she was just saying she understands, from her perspective in the spirit world, the sentiment behind the tattoos and the sentiment behind wanting something that connected them all that connected them to her, that really felt like a special, sacred representation that they each wanted to have. She understood all of those sentiments, and actually she even mentioned some of the specific designs that they had chosen to honor her. And she even made some commentary about liking some of the design someone had like a floral, something that she had mentioned that she really liked, and it was actually her favorite flower in that case, so they can have a different perspective, a different understanding, even if they felt close minded when they were here from the other side, again, they are seeing from a soul perspective. So they're not going to judge our choices or us in the same way. And they, even though they're they have their same personality, they just have a broadened perspective from their soul perspective, and are not so stuck in maybe some of the ideas and mindsets that they were when they were here. So I hope that makes sense as number two of our biggest five misconceptions about life after death, number three of our biggest five misconceptions about life after death is they don't know your future. Spoiler alert, the future is not pre decided. For us, we make choices, and then things happen, and then we make more choices. I don't believe that the future is predetermined, and I have learned over and over and over again in readings this. This really surprises people. This one, if they're in the spirit world, why can't they tell me what's going to happen next? Why can't they tell me in what year I'm going to have a baby, or when I'm going to get married, or what the stock market's going to do next year? Why can't they tell me this is a pretty common misconception while our loved ones on the other side can see some of our potential paths, right? Because any scenario or choice that we're entering, there's a group of options. Right? It might be choosing, you know, one path over another, it might be the timing. It might be our free will contributions, the action steps, but there's a group of potentials of the way things could go in any scenario. But because of free will, our future isn't fixed like that. It's almost like if you choose door number one, this is what happens next. Door number two, this is what happens next, right? And those choices lead to results that are nuanced, day to day, hour by hour, in our experience, and as we make free will choices, and as everyone around us makes Free Will choices, these little nuance details of our lives shift and change and pivot right. Just think about if you ever were back in school when we're at the age where we're doing like team projects with other kids, think about the day that the project's due, right? And you have to present it, and everyone is very stressed out. Well, that could go lots of ways. Maybe the person who's supposed to give the talking part of your presentation calls out sick that day. Maybe the next person is super prepared in a surprising turn of events, right? So there's lots of ways that different scenarios can roll out. Our future's not fixed because of free will. So our loved ones from the spirit world can nudge us. They can try to guide us. They can help to support us in what our soul knows is the highest choice, right? I think in most situations, let's be honest, depending on what's going on, we know there's like a high road choice, there's a low road choice, and some options in the middle. So perhaps your loved ones on the other side are nudging you lovingly towards that high road choice. But they can't control your free will. They don't give you absolute predictions, since the future is not pre decided, that is my little future is not pre decided. Lecture. I'm working with some coffee today. You guys know I don't usually get outside coffee, so let me just sit for a second. Here. I am needing a little kick energy. Today, there is an incredible medium, arguably one of the greatest mediums of our time, who is now on the spirit side herself. Miss Mavis patella, p, i, t, t, I, L, L, A, if you are, if you are interested in mediumship at all, I highly recommend that you check out her work. She's incredible, and she explains this concept beautifully in her book. She's She's several books, but the one I'm talking about is called both sides of life, released in 2008 co written by Susan Farrow. And the way it's explained in this book is that our soul's journey is like a map with many roots, many possible roots. Right, and our loved ones can see which direction looks maybe like the easiest or the most aligned, but they can't dictate or know every single turn that we will take or that those around us will take. And Davis has even said, I'm not going to get an exact quote here, so please forgive me if I'm if I'm missing words here a bit, but the way I understand this quote to be from Mavis is spirit can point to the sign posts or the guide posts, but we as individuals must decide which road to take. So I hope that makes sense to you in the overall prediction of things and why they can't really see far into our future. There's another well known medium named John Edward. He often frames it as that spirit, the spirit world. Our loved ones in the spirit world can shine a flashlight down the path, but we still have to take the action and walk the path, right? So for that reason, they don't have the future to tell you they don't know either you are creating the future day by day, moment by moment, with the choices that you make, what you choose and what you don't choose. And remember sometimes even not making a choice, like refusing to make a choice, is still a choice, and still creates its own ripple of results. So I invite you to just let go of that misconception about hoping that your loved ones on the other side will predict the future, because it's not pre decided for us. Let's move on to our fourth of these five most common, biggest misconceptions about life after death.
Spirit doesn't get lost. Nobody's stuck, you guys, I often, I have people coming with these fearful ideas that perhaps their loved one is stuck or lost. I again, just recently had a lovely young person who had lost a parent, whose parent had crossed over not terribly long ago, and they said they had seen a spiritual practitioner, and that spiritual practitioner told them that their parent was lost, was trying to get to the other side, to reunite with the other family in the spirit world, and that they were lost and struggling to cross over. And as you may or may not be surprised that specific practitioner, as my client, told me, also had a cure for this, had something they could do at a certain cost to them, that this practitioner could get their person unstuck. The spirit world is a world. Within our world, our souls have an intelligence. There is a divine intelligence to the spirit side as well. So our soul is either incarnated in a physical body or it's in the spirit world. There's, there is no in between place to get lost, to remember earlier we were talking about, excuse me, they're not traveling to some far away place. I know that often, culturally, we are taught to think of heaven or the spirit world or the other side, beyond the veil, right even the word beyond makes us feel it has the intonation that it's a far away place that they have to journey to. And often in you know, we're all taught about like ancient Egypt, for example, in school. Well, depending what we're taught, I guess we're, you know, they're traveling down the river, river Nile, through down the underworld, through the river Hades. Well, it's not a journey like that. Do they get to go on adventures and do things on the other side? Sure, but there's not an in between place that they are getting lost when they're leaving the physical body. Crossing over is a natural process. It's like being drawn back to love itself, back to the purest, truest version of yourself. I'm going to take a quick sip of this coffee, guys. It's pretty it's pretty good. Okay, so I think part of the challenge with with this idea of of souls getting stuck in between worlds has to do with movies and ghost stories and media kind of dramatizing the idea of these stuck souls, tortured souls, but in truth, spirit transitions with ease. The once the body shuts down, the soul is immediately in the spirit world, and that's true no matter the type of passing. So that's the other sort of Part B under this nobody's stuck. Sometimes people get attached to the idea that depending on the nature of the passing, for example, some people believe that it's of a medical passing. Of course, they would go immediately to the spirit world. But if it's a more challenging passing, let's say completion of suicide, for example, oh, well, then there must be some Limbo place that they go to. And that's just not the case. That's just not true. True. We're either in a body, and once our soul leaves the body, we are immediately in the non physical world, in the spirit world. So that transition is is natural. We might interpret this like stuck energy as like emotional residue in a place, for example, but it's not a person's soul trapped forever. We might still feel the residual energy of a person, even if it's not the presence of their actual soul in a place, but it's not them stuck there forever. The other little piece of this that I think is really interesting, that I don't hear a lot of these, like paranormal investigators talking about so we have this idea for movie and these haunted type shows that places are haunted, right? And the way I understand it is the soul's not stuck there. Can they be there visiting that place? Sure. Could a psychic investigator be picking up on or feeling or sensing or understanding residual emotion of a trauma or a tragedy in a place. Of course, I felt that myself in places where, particularly like tragic or traumatic things have happened as a sensitive sometimes we can feel a residual, heavy energy or sad energy. Often I hear them terming it as like, quote, unquote, dark energy. It just means heavy or sad or not great feeling. But it doesn't mean that there's an evil spirit and the other bit of it. So that could be one aspect of what's happening. The other thing that could be happening is, hypothetically, if there was an architect, let's just say that designed a building and had a special interest in that building, they can go back and visit that building. They might be curious about the changes being made in that place, or the redecoration being done. They might know that you love that house, and they also love that house. And so you guys are connected by this mutual love of this property. For example, perhaps they left something behind in that house that they're wanting to bring attention to. So there can be lots of reasons, but it's not someone being stuck or trapped. So please don't worry whether your own loved ones are stuck or trapped. They transition immediately to the spirit side. And the truth is, spirit is received with Love always. There's no limbo, no punishment. Everyone is greeted by loved ones and helpers on the other side. And I've actually even come to learn that sometimes those with the more tragic, the more traumatic, the more difficult, passing are greeted with even more love and helped to heal, helped to come to an understanding of, for example, why they made the difficult choices they made in their life that perhaps led to their departure. They're they're given extra attention, extra care, extra nurturing. They're not met with punishment or shipped off to some like Holding, holding loading zone or something. Each soul is welcomed and received, uh, back home, that's truly where we spend most of our existence. Let's say a very long human life in our present day time is like 105 years is maybe the oldest person I've heard of recently, and even that, in the grand scheme of time is very short. So we we are going back home to our natural residence of our soul, right? So just know that it's a natural transition. Nobody's stuck. Your loved ones are not in a limbo. They are back with the family. They're free to move about and that they are not in a bad or stuck place, okay? So that is our fourth of these five misconceptions. The fifth of the five biggest misconceptions about life after death is that they have not abandoned you, even if you sometimes don't seem to feel them anymore, even if they came in a dream only one time, but then never again, they've not abandoned you. It's a big misconception again, that sometimes people will say, Oh, they've moved on. They're no longer available. Or I used to feel them very strongly, and now I don't at all. Or some people even say that they've never felt their loved one at all. Please know that is a limitation of our human awareness. It's not indicative that your loved ones aren't around you, that they don't know what's going on in your life, that they're not present with you. Sometimes their soul's presence, as you probably heard me say a million times by now, can feel very subtle. Sometimes it even feels like it's coming in little waves or little blips. Sometimes it. They might energetically step back a bit out of our awareness to allow us to heal or grow on our own, because we have things that we want to do here. Our souls are also trying to grow in this experience and remember, like we talked about earlier, they're coming from that soul perspective. So they want what's in the most alignment with your soul, right? So they might take a step back out of your awareness. It doesn't mean that they're not there, it just means you're a little less aware of them, because they're giving you a little space, taking off a little bit of training wheels, maybe they're allowing you to grow or heal. It's not abandonment, it's that they love and respect you so much that they are honoring and supporting your process and the process of your soul. They are always around you. I mean, they do give you privacy when you would want privacy, don't get me wrong, but they're not abandoning you. They're always around you. The fact that you don't necessarily feel them. Doesn't mean they're not gone. That can be for lots of different reasons. It could mean, for example, that you're so physically focused, maybe you're very busy. Maybe you have lots of tasks going on, maybe you're raising a family, let's just say, or seven dogs, or just have a crazy schedule, and so you're physically focused and not available for the way we subtly sense them from the other side. Maybe you've been very distracted. Maybe you have lots of technology on around you that's taking your time and attention so you're not aware of the subtleties of how they'll communicate. Or maybe you're not even available for, let's just say, like signs in the physical world, because you're just so distracted or absorbed in technology too much to notice. Maybe you have a lot of heavy emotions happening, even if the emotions aren't related to their passing, right? Maybe something's going on in your personal life or in the life of someone close to you that's giving you a heaviness, difficult emotions, a challenge. Our loved ones aren't stepping away from us in those moments. They're actually as close as ever, but it's our awareness that is just too focused elsewhere to be available to sense them, because those heavy emotions often make it a little bit challenging to raise our vibration to where we can more easily feel them. I know this is getting a little bit Woo, woo, maybe for some of you at this point, but stick with me, because this is applicable to everybody, even if you don't feel like you're a sensitive person who can sense loved ones around. Sometimes, I've talked about this a lot before, but sometimes the fact is that the language around all of the spirit world and how we interact with them, and what the subtle senses are, the language doesn't necessarily match with our experience. So even just in this idea of feeling your loved ones around from the other side. It's not a feeling like a physical feeling, necessarily. It could be different every time, but it's almost never going to be except maybe once in a blue moon for some people, sometimes it's not going to be them touching you in a way that, like if a if a dog that's in physical form jumps on your lap and you feel that type of touch, it's typically not like that. It's very subtle. It's a whisper, not a shout, and it's even quieter than a whisper, because it's a whisper without sound. Usually it's just a nudge, it's just a thought, it's just them rising to your awareness or popping into your mind when you were doing something else. That's you, sensing, feeling, knowing they're around. It might feel like you're making it up, but you're not. That is how they communicate from the other side. And something I often share with my clients, as well as most of us, have this group of go to memories for any specific person that we have this side or the other. But let's just use our loved ones in the spirit world. For this example, think of someone specific that you love that's on the other side, and you probably have a group of memories that are like your go to highlight reel of the things you think about with this person. Maybe there are some tender memories, maybe there are some up and down memories, but whatever your group of memories are, you usually have this, like I said, highlight reel of memories for an individual that we love on the other side, one of the things that they will do to spend time with us is bubble up to our awareness a memory that we haven't thought of in a long time. So have you ever been just going about your business and all of a sudden a memory pops up about a person on the other side that you're like, oh my gosh, I haven't thought about that in years. I totally forgot that we went on that trip together when we were young, or whatever it might be. That's them reminiscing, kind of plucking that. From your soul's awareness and moving it forward into your mind, to reminisce with you, to share with you, to spend time with you. It's often them bubbling up that memory to your awareness. They haven't abandoned you. It's just that the way that they are present feels different than when we're in physical form. So that's part of what is happening, because they are always around. I've heard it given as almost like a radio signal, an example where, if we think about radio waves, right radio signals, for those of us that still have a radio in our car or house somewhere, the signal is constant. Right radio signals always being transmitted. So that signal is constant, but sometimes our tuner isn't picking up a certain station. We can tune to one station or another station, or sometimes we might not be tuned to any station and it's staticky, or it's quiet. It's not that that signal is not being broadcast. So if you think about our dreams, signs in the world, synchronicities, those memories that we talked about, just the gentle thought of them coming into your mind, or it's it's a little subtler than the way I'm about to say it, but like the memory of their voice saying congratulations, or I love you, or even a chuckle, kind of of their voice in your mind. And it's much, much, much subtler than probably even how I'm saying it. Now, those are all hellos and support and love from the other side, but they're all ways that they're gently reminding us that they're near. It's not usually really loud, so they're transmitting to us. They're communicating to us. They're emitting love for us and around us. It's just that we might not be tuned exactly properly in that moment to feel it. But it doesn't mean it's any less coming to us from them. It's us, not them, what I want to say. So hopefully that clears that up. They have not abandoned you, even if you feel like you're not actively feeling them anymore. And we've given lots of exercise over the time of spirit speakeasy, of how you can sit in your awareness and then invite your loved ones to come and gently sit next to you. I do also on my website, joyful medium.com still have that free sign mini course, if you haven't already taken it, it's called sign magnet. And I also have some exciting things coming up this fall, that if you get on that list, you'll get the links, you'll get notified. But that sign course will teach you how to set up among other things, but one of the things that teaches you how to set up specific signs with your loved ones in the spirit world. And it's not that that's the only way we can communicate with them, but one, it sure is a fun way. And two, sometimes when we're very in our head, it can be something a little differently tangible that can help us know that they're nearby. So if you sometimes are feeling like, oh, have have they abandoned me? They haven't. But if you're not feeling them, there are some workarounds, but just know that they're no less with you, no less emitting love to you and supporting you than any other time, even if you feel not aware they haven't abandoned you. So as we wrap up today's conversation of these five biggest misconceptions about life after death, I hope this can serve as a bit of a reminder to you that your loved ones in the spirit world, they're never far away. They're not judging you, they're not stuck. They've not abandoned you. They're walking with you, beside you, quietly, often, sure, but they're still loving you. They're still cheering you on. They're still celebrating your wins and comforting you and offering nurturing love and support through those challenges or those hurdles that we all face in life. And you know, sometimes it might feel like it's in ways so subtle that we might miss it, but they're always there with love and devotion around you. And remember, this isn't just about the people you were close to in this life. This is kind of a little bonus misconception, maybe even if it's a loved one that you never got to meet in your entire lifetime, they're a great grandparent, let's just say someone you didn't get to meet, or maybe someone that you knew a really long time ago, that you you know didn't even know, passed away, or a family member that you have totally forgotten about or aren't thinking of. It might be someone that you met just briefly, right? That you don't think about when you think about your group of family who's in the spirit world, there are so many souls supporting each of us, and each of us has such a bigger cheering section on the other side than we usually even realize. So with whoever you're thinking about that you have on the other side that was either related to you or as an ancestor to you through your career or your practice, just know that there are many, many, many more souls showing up to support you. You than even whoever has come to mind throughout this episode, because they're drawn to us by the love that we share, and even if you didn't have a close relationship with them, they still love you through that family bond, they still care about you and what goes on in your life. So clearing up these misconceptions isn't about getting the right answer, it's about opening that door to comfort, to healing and to that soul to soul connection that never truly dies. So the next time you are wondering if you are bothering your loved ones, when you are sending a thought or a prayer to them, or you're worried if you can't feel them anymore and what's going on, trust this truth. Love never ends. It just continues on in a different way, the bond that you share with your people in the spirit world, all of those souls, no matter what incarnation they took, that bond that love is eternal, and it's as alive today as it ever was. So I hope that this conversation has been meaningful for you, and that it's just opened your mind to how many of these misconceptions might have been blocking or challenging your relationship with your loved ones on the other side, and maybe you got stuck in some of these misconceptions. Please let me know below, I am so grateful as always, for you being here with me. I am wishing you all wonderful things, especially the wisdom and truth that your loved ones are around you, supporting you, still connected to you by the Love that you share. Always, Big hugs. Lots of love. Bye for now from inside, Spirit Speakeasy