Can you train your energy into alignment the way an athlete trains their body? Absolutely—and this episode shows you how.

Drawing inspiration from Napoleon Hill, the famed teacher and author of the renowned classic Think and Grow Rich, we’ll explore what he got profoundly right about success—and what he never touched on: the energetic and emotional components that truly magnetize opportunity.

This is your energetic alignment reset—where timeless mindset meets modern energetics. You’ll discover how to call opportunity to you through belief, frequency, and nervous-system readiness. Expect practical energetic tools to make alignment stick in real life, quotable insights, and a 5-minute daily tuning ritual to upgrade your signal.

You’ll learn:

• How to interpret fear and resistance as energetic feedback (not failure)
• Why your energy field “broadcasts” belief vs. lack—and how to retune it
• The underdog identity trap and why success honors, not betrays, your past
• Why wanting is weak but belief is magnetic
• The Law of Readiness: how to energetically prepare to receive more
• A quick daily practice to align your energy before the day begins

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Episode Transcript:

Joy. Hey, beautiful soul, welcome to spirit. Speak Easy. I'm Joy Giovanni, joyful medium. I'm a working psychic medium, energy healer and spiritual gifts mentor. This podcast is like a seat at the table in a secret club, but with mediums, mystics and the spiritual luminaries of our time. So come behind the velvet ropes with me and see inside my world as I chat insider style with profoundly gifted souls, we go deep, share juicy stories, laugh a lot, and it wouldn't be a speakeasy without great insider secrets and tips. You might even learn that you have some gifts of your own so step inside the spirit. Speak Easy. Hey, beautiful soul. Welcome in for another episode of spirit speakeasy. This week, we are going to be talking all about the art of energetic alignment. Did you know you can train your energy like an athlete to respond in the ways that you need it to I'm so excited about this episode, and I want to dive right in. But let me just quickly tell you guys, I am always thinking about you, what you want to learn, what you're struggling with, what you're stuck on, what is rising up for you in any given moment. And I've been working on this episode for a little while because, as many of you know, I have a free workshop coming up, which we will talk more about later, and I'm going to teach you the tools for free in that workshop that essentially is part of what we're going to dive into today. Because the frustrating thing is that even if we work hard, you know, in our job and become skilled at whatever it is we do and try our best in our relationships. There are additional energetic things going on all the time that we're not taught about, and they do affect everything. So today, we are diving into that invisible force that shapes everything. You attract, magnetize, experience your energetic alignment. I'm kind of thinking of this episode a little bit as a part two to that aura. 101 episode, and we're going to talk more about how your aura is involved in this energetic projection as we go through this episode. But I also want to just highlight that. I don't know if you guys know this about me, but I am a lifelong, pretty continuous learner. So sometimes I will dip into just deep diving other teachers or wise, wise ones that have walked the earth. And this that we're going to talk about today, I'm going to be quoting Napoleon Hill quite a bit, and some of these are based on his theories, his teachings, but also I think he's missing some bits, just from the energetic standpoint. But I love that this work, this talk of energetic alignment, has been available for a long time. It's just we're generally not taught this, and most of us don't necessarily. It's think like, that's not where our mind goes to when we're thinking like, What the heck is going on in my life, right? We don't always think about, oh, is my energy aligned? But it's more important than you probably realize. If you've been here a little while, you might realize it, so kudos to you. I like to think of this episode also as your energetic alignment reset. It's practical spiritual tune up for your vibration and just refocusing you around that, because truly, it is so, so important. There are several segments I want to move through. And I know you guys like to know what I'm drinking. I am drinking a an outside coffee. And maybe at the end, I'll tell you something that I'm doing for myself that is just a little, a little fun gift that I'm doing. It's coffee related. So if you are a coffee drinker or need a little boost of caffeine here and there, we'll chat about that at the end, just as a fun Z and let me know your thoughts. If you guys want me to start doing more of a longer outro. There was a time in the pod where I would share kind of what was going on with me in these episodes, but with the platforms, all of the platforms, the video platforms and the audio platforms, they kind of like you to get right to it in the algorithm. So I can start putting those shares at the end if you guys want them. So if you want more personal shares, please let me know in the comments wherever you're watching or listening to this, or drop it in an email to me. Joy at joyful medium.com I always love hearing from you guys. So I want to talk first about fear resistance and this kind of inner call back to alignment. Napoleon Hill said Fear is nothing more than a state of mind. Maybe you heard of his one of his most famous books, Think and Grow Rich, right? And this is not necessarily about financial riches, per se, but all of the abundance that we're trying to create in our lives, we talk here about abundance, right? And how we align for abundance and what that looks like. Well, fear is one of the things that holds us back from being aligned and from allowing abundance to flow to. Us and through us. So I'm going to give you that quote again. This is Napoleon Hill. Fear is nothing more than a state of mind. Resistance is not our enemy, and often resistance comes from lots of things, like stepping out of our comfort zone, challenging ourselves to something bigger, something new even can come in making a new friend. We can feel resistance, right? But resistance is not an enemy. It's information. It's your energy showing you where you are out of alignment with your next level, your next step. If something is for you and your soul is nudging you right, saying like you need to make some more friends, you need to get out there, you need to build your community. And often these nudges come in different forms. So sometimes it might be, oh, yeah, I should join like, a cooking club. I like cooking. Maybe I'll do that. And then it's like, oh, I don't want to meet strangers. And then maybe in a week later, it loops around, like, why don't you just search for a cooking class in your area? It's, it won't always be the exact same version of the nudge often, but it's just your energy showing you where you are out of sync, out of alignment with that next level that resistance rises up. And often we just say, Okay, well, I'm not going to do it instead of examining that resistance, and that's what I want to encourage you to do as part of our time together today, when you notice a fear, a hesitation, a resistance, right? Don't shame yourself. Don't say, oh my gosh, I'm you know, don't go down that path, that rabbit hole with yourself. Let yourself expand into that resistance. I really spend a lot of time doing this with myself, once we've moved through quite a bit of the personal development, this resistance still shows up in funny ways. And you guys know I've shared over the years my different versions of resistance, because resistance is what holds us back, often, from growing into living into these next versions of ourselves and those things that we want to experience. For those of you listening and not watching the video version, you know, I talk with my hands so much, so I'm really trying to calm down with that. But I'm Italian. What can I say? It's in us. So when you notice that hesitation, that resistance, start just sitting with yourself. You can imagine expanding your energy around that resistance. And just getting a little curious, what part of me is trying to keep me safe? Because when we feel resistance, hesitation, fear, it is a part of us trying to keep us safe. Typically, now it could be safe from a bear and we're like, oh, camping in that area is not safe. It could be like, reasonable and
rational and important, right? But it could also be a part of us that's not ready to move forward into that great unknown, outside of the comfort zone, into that class that we want to take, into that skill that we want to build, right? So, is it a part of you that is creating a story from something that happened a long time ago. Maybe, is it a part of you that is saying, Oh, that feels uncomfortable, and I don't want to do it, because we are human, nature is to try to remain comfortable all the time, right? It's why we don't like to get out of our comfort zone, many of us, and the truth is, in some areas of our lives, we do go out of our comfort zone more readily, and in other areas of our lives, we don't. So some of you might be thinking, Oh, I have no problem joining a social circle that I don't know anyone. That's not my issue. But maybe resistance is rising up in other ways, in other areas for you, maybe it's about you secretly want to write a book, and that's where your resistance is. It's not about public facing things. It's about private facing things. So just be open to the various ways, sneaky ways, often that resistance is popping up in your life, and just get curious, the shame, the victim mentality. It's not helpful, and it's not it's not going to help you grow, and it's definitely not going to help you step into alignment. It's fair to process emotions, right? But don't get stuck in those heavy emotions. Move to curiosity. What part of me is trying to keep me safe? What's going on in here? Every moment of fear is actually a call to recalibrate your frequency, to come back into energetic alignment with your truth. If we do as we have always done, we will get what we have we have always gotten right. We know that. So if you are wanting something different, something more, something expanded in your life, maybe you're happy with the way things are but you're just wanting more of right, more of certain areas, that fear, that hesitation, that resistance. It's actually your soul moving you towards a frequency recalibration that you are totally capable of. If your soul is calling you to it, there is a version of it that is for. You. It doesn't mean that there's no work or effort involved, as we know, right? That's our free will buy in. But those fears, those hesitations, those resistances, are calling you into energetic alignment with the truth of who you are and where your soul wants you to go. Okay? So since we know that that's what the fear and resistance is doing, I want to talk a little bit about your energetic field and how it's always broadcasting. Remember, I told you we're going to talk about the auric field. So what is actually happening? As you know, we talk a lot about this here, we are a soul in a physical body having a human experience. We're not a human that suddenly gets a soul, right? It's the soul leading so the soul comes from the Spirit side into physical incarnation in a body, right? And as part of that soul moving through the body, I often like to talk about it as we have a higher self, which is that greater part of our soul, self that can't fit in our physical body. The hard thing is, we get so black and white in our thinking, and it's so much more complex and involved. So if you want to do the physics deep dive on it, feel free. Maybe we'll do it here one day. If I could find a physicist who can, who can simplify it for us, I'll say it that way. So this soul version of you is living in you as you through you, and also live streaming this soul self, this higher self, one in the same through you. Now, we do have our human personality and the way we move through the world, but this soul self, as it lives in you, emanates from you, so creates this energetic field around you that is your aura, auric field, or aura. If you want to really dive into this piece, go back to that aura 101 episode, and you'll get all the super deep details about the aura. I'm not going to give them here, just because we've already done it. And I want to really talk about how to align your energy so your energetic field, your aura, is like a broadcast signal. And remember, we've talked about this before. Really that energetic field, that projection of your aura, is happening all the time. Your auric field moves. It stretches out ahead of you. It's discerning information. It's part of how you process other people's emotions and things you sense in a space, and it's a natural part of you. And also we're not taught about it, but it's like a broadcast signal. It transmits your beliefs, your emotions, your expectations, to the world. And this is usually happening subconsciously, unconsciously, just as a part of the way we roll through this world. I do always like to mention when I talk about the auric field, for those of you that are like, I don't know if that's a real thing, science hasn't quite caught up to metaphysics in this area yet. And if you go research a place called the heart map Institute, they have actually measured the electromagnetic magnetic field projected by the heart, like the organ of the heart, which PS, is also the heart chakra. So for those of you that know, you know and there is a measurable electromagnetic field that comes out from the heart, I just think they haven't measured the whole field, because it's not just coming from the heart, it's coming from our whole self. So that's what's happening, projecting from us through us into the energy right around us, and it transmits to the world. It's not only about receiving information. Our auric field is a two way communicator. So I'm going to give you another Napoleon Hill quote here, you are the master of your fate, the captain of your soul, because when you control your thoughts, you control your destiny. That is a big statement, but I'm going to leave it sit with you. What you feed your energy with the people, the content, the conversations, the environment that you allow around you, all of this helps to shape that signal that you're emitting as a soul, right? And while our soul is the everlasting part of us, it's this human part of us that makes the Free Will choices, right, decides to go join that group or take that class. So we are in this human state, the human part of us does Captain this ship and does make a lot of choices on behalf of the soul. If we were just living purely as our soul selves, without fear and hesitation and these challenged emotions, we would move through maybe with different ease, right, and different understanding. So if your energy feels off, one of the first things to do is take a look at your inputs. What do I mean by that? Look at the patterns that you're engaging in. Look at the people that you have around you, whose calls are you taking, who are you watching on social platforms. What is the energy that drains your freedom? Frequency. I'm going to take a sip of coffee. I have also decided that I need to be caffeinated as a part of my reality. Again, we'll talk about that at the end.
And if you guys hate the SIP noise and you want me to really edit those out heavily, let me know, and I will. So what you're feeding your energy with this environment around you, your soul, your emotions, that is going to shape this signal that you're emitting. So stop apologizing for your power. Stop minimizing your potential. You have the choice to allow people to drain you like by engaging with them, and don't get it twisted. I do realize that, you know, for example, I'm thinking of someone I know that's a nurse that deals with just a lot of trauma, physical trauma, emotional trauma. She greets people often on their worst days of the year that they're having. Well, of course, she's participating in some of that energy, but she can shut it off at the end of the day. She doesn't have to take on board those heavy emotions. She doesn't have to dwell in that, right? So realize that you have more power in the situation than you probably are giving yourself credit for. The other thing that Napoleon Hill says pretty strictly, I'm going to keep telling you more things throughout this episode that I found was really interesting about fine tuning the energy that we're taking in. He very specifically says, Do not entertain lack gossip or emotional chaos. Those are his big three, lack gossip or emotional chaos. Now that doesn't mean that we don't volunteer and help someone that's in lack. It means that when we are looking at our own lack, or what has not manifested in our lives yet, that we are watching our attitude about it. We are watching our judgments about it. We are watching the way that we are thinking about it and feeling about it right. Don't what it means. Don't entertain lack gossip or emotional chaos. Don't perpetuate it. Don't stay in conversations endless day after day that bring that into your awareness that is tuning your focus to lack gossip or emotional chaos. Don't complain day after day to your bestie about how you don't have that ideal partner, that ideal job. You can say, hey, I'm working on this. Here's what I'm doing. But make it more constructive than destructive, I guess is the easiest way to say it. You are training your energy field, moment by moment, every thought, every reaction, what you dwell on, what you take in, and the more you embody your truth, the truth of who you are as a soul in this incarnation, the more that you can step into that power, and the less that you will ever feel like you need to prove it. The other thing that I would just want to throw in here, just from my perspective as a spiritual worker, there are lots of souls that want to come into this earth school, into physical incarnation. So don't think that you're not powerful because you're here. Don't think that you didn't choose to live in this time period, in this go round. Because your soul did choose to come doesn't mean we choose all of the factors in our life and exactly how they show up. You guys. Hear me always saying, it's a chaotic world. Things happen, right? But the more that you embody your truth, that you are a soul, that you have come here to experience, that you are powerful, that you have unlimited potential in this lifetime, the more you can accept and embody those things, the less you will ever need to prove those things outwardly to anyone else. So I want to talk about a crucial part of this that Napoleon Hill talks about, which is this idea of healing the underdog identity. Okay, this one really knocked me back on my booty. You guys, when I I've been processing this, this research that I've done over the last few months, I want to talk about the part of you that still identifies with the struggle, right? Maybe you're not identifying as your powerful soul self right now, the part of you that one that secretly believes that being the underdog makes you more lovable or more real? Yeah, I said it. Napoleon Hill said it first, but I'm saying it again, the one part of you that equates ease with laziness and success with betrayal if you get too big, right? And I know this emotion might be common for so many of you in different ways, but think about if you have success in your life, and then you go back home to the small town where people are struggling, and it's, Oh, look who's big for their britches, or look who thinks they're something the big lawyer, the big the big executive, right? We've seen it in movies, and probably many of you have experienced it in your lives. Are. Are you subconsciously identifying as an underdog, so that you are lovable, so that you are real, so that you can can still be loyal to those parts of you that got you where you are, that part of you, like I said, that equates ease with laziness. How many times have we heard like, oh, well, something's coming easy to them. Well, it doesn't mean they haven't worked in other areas, right? So ease does not always mean laziness. Success is not a betrayal of past versions of you, but success is not disloyal to your past. It's a redemption from your past. When you rise, you honor every version of yourself that fought to get you here, those versions of you that weren't willing to just roll over and take it, those versions of you that eventually got sick of the bad situation, the bad job, the bad relationship, those versions of you are honored and respected and really get to, yeah, be thought of that way when you step more and more and more into the truth of who you actually are. Here's another quote from Napoleon Hill. He reminds us in his work, no one is ready for a thing until they believe they can acquire it. So even if we think we want something, it doesn't mean that we are ready for it. And if you think you can't get it, you can't have it, you can't be it, you can't acquire it, well then you're never going to be ready for it if the frequency you return to when you're alone with your thoughts is doubt or guilt instead of certainty, belief and dignity, that is your next spiritual assignment, give your energy to recalibrating those types of thoughts and emotions. And I'm just going to throw this in here. If you're watching this at the time it's released or reasonably close to go to my website and get on the list for this free workshop, because I'm going to teach you how to move through these emotions. I'm going to teach you how to find them because they hide and they're tricky and they show up in ways that we don't even realize that that's a fear or a resistance or a self sabotage often, and we don't always realize how to recalibrate but and again, I'm going to be offering several different workshops throughout the end of 2025 and all of 2026 so even if you're revisiting this later, much later than it's being created, I can guarantee I probably have something around the corner to teach you how to work on this, because I've discovered that this is one of the main things that my community needs me to teach is and all of This leads to accessing your intuition to accessing and moving towards your best life. So give your energy to to recalibrating those emotions, that belief. So when you feel doubt or guilt or hesitation, rise up, get curious and investigate and start swapping out or moving yourself towards certainty, belief in yourself, dignity. Ooh, that's a big word, dignity. Let that roll around in your space. Okay, I want to also, since we've talked about the underdog and that version of us that wants to be loyal to our underdog self, I am not excluded from this, by the way, one day, one day, maybe I'll write my whole underdog story. But I realized when I was reading and listening and researching, oh my gosh, in some areas, I think I do feel loyal to that underdog version of myself. So just check that out within your self. This next bit that I want to talk about is
this idea of wanting versus belief, right? Wanting is the weaker emotion. Belief is the more powerful emotion. Here, you don't attract what you want. You attract what you believe. Remember that last quote that we just talked about, Napoleon Hill, no one's ready for a thing until they believe they can acquire it we I mean, believe me, how many of us raise your hand? I'm raising my hand for those that can't see are wishing for a genie with a lamp to give us the things we want. Right? We don't attract based on what we want. We attract based on what we believe wanting vibrates lack. Right? Because if you're wanting you're realizing you don't have it, and you're putting that power outside of yourself, that someone needs to give it to you, bring it to you, right? So lack is a kind of a, not the highest vibration. It could be. Belief vibrates as power. So you're always transmitting. Remember, our auric field is always transmitting what we believe, what our emotions are, whether we consciously are fooling ourselves or not, our soul actually knows the truth. So the more we can be in alignment with that truth of what we feel, what we think, what we know, what we believe. We can be shifting that transmission that we are sending out subconsciously, unconsciously to the world. So you are always transmitting. But are you doing it consciously? You have the option, and a lot of us just don't think of it. Hill also famously said, whatever the mind can conceive and believe it can achieve. You've probably heard this quote, just not attributed to him, whatever the mind can conceive and believe it can achieve. Just the fact here, I've heard about this over the years with energetic teachers, psychic teachers, different, different masters. I'll say it that way. If your soul is calling you towards it, there is a version of it that is for you, right? It doesn't mean it's going to look exactly like it did in the movie you watched that inspired you, for example. But if your soul is hungry for something is calling you towards something, that means that there is a version of that thing that is for you, that relationship, that job, that skill, that community, whatever it is, so we have to align with what we are believing in order to achieve or have so let's make this more practical before you open your phone, before you get get into scrolling, spend five minutes tuning your energy field. Imagine that personal space bubble around you, your auric field. I encourage people, usually to imagine it about just about an arm's distance away. Maybe I like it even closer, about a half an arm's distance away, if you will. And just imagine that auric field, that energy around you, glowing, expanding, aligning with abundance, aligning with your highest good, aligning with the cooperative components to move you towards those things that you believe and and desire in the highest possible way. And you can even speak to your energy with authority and with love. You can say things like, I am aligned with expansion. I am aligned with my highest and greatest good. I am magnetic to opportunity. Success flows to and through me easily, right? So you can choose your own affirmations, but set a little timer, spend about five minutes just focusing your auric field, tuning, doing some energetic work in there before you jump online and do this until your body believes it, because your soul already knows it. It's the human version of us and our physical body that we are needing to convince is not the right word, but that we are needing to get on board with this belief. Your soul already knows that you are limitless, that you have the potential to express in so many ways and so much more, because your nervous system needs to learn that expansion is safe. The physical body that has those reactions, those gut nervousness reactions, needs to learn that expanding outside of your comfort zone, expanding outside of your current life experience, is safe. So that is part of what this tuning process is. And again, I'm going to walk you through in a half day workshop, really the nitty gritty of getting in there and doing the evaluation. Because one of the pieces that I feel like Napoleon Hill misses in all of this is these unprocessed emotions. Because it's one thing to just say, Okay, I'm just going to realign myself, and I believe it now, but it's another thing to have those past versions of us inside of us, those past experiences that we kind of have tucked away as like, Okay, well, I don't speak in front of groups because when I was a kid, this happened, or I'm not good enough for this, because somebody told me back in the day, or when I was younger, and a lot of these beliefs are held subconsciously and unconsciously. So I really feel like in his work, I haven't found him to really focus on that personal development aspect, which ties to everything, and which is what makes your intuition feel stuck or blocked. Okay, so I just want to throw that in there as a little caveat, because we do also need to train our nervous system, our physical body, that expansion is safe, but sometimes we need to do some personal development and some work to get there. So I also want to talk about this idea of the law of readiness. Okay, there's lots of these universal laws, and most of us only hear about law of attraction, which is a whole different thing all in and of itself. I think people often think of it as a magic wand, but tied right into this law of attraction is the law of readiness. Okay, so here's the real question, do you unconsciously repel opportunity because the old versions of you couldn't handle the responsibility? Oof, that's a big one. I know. I'm gonna say it again so you can just let it. Wash over you. Do you unconsciously repel opportunities. And again, opportunity can be job, opportunity, relationship, opportunity, community, opportunity, fun, opportunity that you didn't even ask for, that you didn't know you could have, right? Did you? Do you now conscious, unconsciously repel opportunity because the old version of you couldn't handle the responsibility you don't attract what you chase. You attract what you're ready to receive. Right? This is that readiness again. This is that belief. Readiness is energetic, not intellectual. We can do all of the mantras and all of the journaling that we want to tell ourselves we believe something, but if we do not energetically believe it, if we are not energetically ready to receive it, we hold it away at a distance. We hold it at a future time when I'm ready. This will happen. When I've done this, XYZ will happen, right? But the magic here. And I'm using that word, I guess, loosely, even though I feel like it's magic, it's just not the magic wand kind of magic you can train your energy field the way an athlete trains their body. Not everyone knows this about me. Some of you do. I used to be in acting and modeling, and I was a fitness trainer. As part of this, I've done many, many iterations in my life, and in order to perform at the highest levels, I was aware, okay, I'm going for roles and for an idea of what I want to do and how I want to express myself. The goal at the time was film and television, even though I also did lots of smaller independent films and things. If I want to work at this level where only what is it like, 3% of people that want to be actors actually become successful working actors. I don't know the exact statistic. It's a low percentage. I have to train like I want to be in that top 3% right? So I trained my physical body relentlessly, hours and hours a day of kickboxing and versions of Muay Thai and Kung Fu and running and weightlifting. I trained like an athlete. I didn't love it, and I've had to work through some of the emotions around that. But this is a different version of that. You can train your energy field the way an athlete trains their body. You can build stamina for success. You can stretch your tolerance for abundance. You can learn to identify when fear rises up, get curious, work through it and hold your vibration steady. So there are tools that you can have to work on this and to maintain that energetic vibration that will attract what you want. There's some weeding of the garden to be done, and again, this is where I want to just ring that bell of personal development, because that's part of the training. That's part of readying the ground right. Here's another quote from Hill on this when defeat comes, accept it as a signal that your plans are not sound, rebuild those plans and set sail once more. That's alignment, not perfection, adjustment, because we will need to keep adjusting and fine tuning and maybe the version of the plan that we thought is not the one that's going to come to fruition. So don't take defeat or what someone might label failure or not success. Don't take it as a signal that you need to totally scrap the plan, or that you're a loser, which if you want to devolve to the lowest level, you could beat yourself up. Don't do that. That's just not helpful. Instead, rebuild those plans, and like he says, Set sail once more. That is the best way to do it. That's alignment, and we do need to keep adjusting for alignment. Okay, I want to talk about becoming the next version of you, because we all have past versions of us. We all are a current version of us, but we all tend to want more for our future, more different, better often people identify it as well. We have to become these next versions of ourselves in order to step into that. That is really what the workshop is focusing on. So I'm going to keep just peppering it in here, because I don't want you to miss out. I can't tell you how many times I will have a really powerful, free workshop, and then a week later someone will say, Oh, I wasn't paying attention and I missed it. And then you'll have to wait for the next go around. So the version of you that you're emerging right, the version of you that's that's wanting to come forward and crack out of this chrysalis cannot grow inside the energy of who you've been. Remember? Well, like we said at the beginning, to if you are doing the same as you've always done, you will experience what you have always experienced. If you're wanting to move forward to. Grow, we need to set the energy so that those emerging versions of us that our soul is calling us to be can actually start living in the now. But we can't grow these new versions of ourselves inside those layers of old belief and stuck emotions and unprocessed energy. Right? Every seed must crack open before it blooms, and yet, sometimes that cracking feels like breaking. Have you ever, and I'm thinking about several people I know right now in present day, because it's a little bit chaotic in the world and in lots of people's lives right now. Have you ever had something that feels like your world is falling apart. Maybe it's the end of a relationship. Maybe it's the end of a job in a way that you weren't expecting. Maybe it's a tragedy in your own life or in the life of someone that you care very much about. It can feel uncomfortable, like a breaking or breaking away when something cracks open, right? But like we know from gardening, every seed before it blooms, that shell of the seed has to crack open. It's not a collapse, it's an expansion. Sometimes in the midst of the breakdown part, it feels like a collapse, but it's not. Confidence doesn't come from validation. Confidence doesn't come from external people telling you you're good at this. You deserve this. You can have this. You can do this. Confidence is a decision. And I can't remember who this quote is by you guys can tell me if you know, and I can look it up later. Have you ever heard that quote? Feel the fear and do it anyway. Confidence is not something that we need to wait for before we step into these versions of ourselves, before we become competence doesn't come from validation. Belief doesn't come from validation. It's a decision. Every time you decide to hold your frequency higher when no one is validating you, when nothing has been proven yet that is energetic mastery. So I want you to ask yourself right now, as you're listening to this, what vibration Am I training my energy to emit today? Are you rolling around stress and lack and worry, or are you training your energy that hey, even though I don't see it yet, I believe it. It's kind of, I mean, again, back to my example. That's kind of how you have to do it with anything you're shooting for the acting world. It's very out of reach for all of us, normal citizens, right? It was very out of reach for me, but something in me just knew, just believed, if I keep going, I can't prove it right. I can't prove that this is true. There's no one validating me. And to be quite honest with you, between agents and auditions and casting people, you mostly get whatever is the opposite of validation. Mean comments, mean feedback judgment. Imagine getting called in the middle of the day to go stand in front of a room of executives and casting people in a bikini. It's called the go see happens all the time. It's maybe different now in the world of technology, but it's not something that you have to have external validation to create. And in fact, that external validation almost never comes until the thing is created and demonstrated over and over, right? Think about that show, Shark Tank. I don't know if you like that show, but I have loved that show in various points over the year. Those products aren't proven yet. Usually they're not bringing their product on TV to these investors, because other people believe in them. No, it's that they believe in themselves. They believe in this thing that they have to offer, right? So what vibration Are you training your energy to emit today? Take a deep breath if you can, if it's you're in a place that's safe to do so you could even close your eyes and just let yourself feel that very subtle hum or energy right around you. That's your auric field. It's responding to your awareness. Your energy is always responding to you. You are the captain in this moment. Because you're in the physical body, your energy can't move in a way that you won't allow it, in a way that you don't believe it can. You're not waiting for alignment. You're creating alignment. You're training your energy moment by moment to match your highest potential. It's the highest potential that you believe is available to you, and the universe can't help meet you when you get there. Once your energy is tuned, you and you can hold that alignment, you will see that everything will shift around you, doors open, opportunities present, connections come, but again, you have to believe it. It can't just be, oh, prove to me that you're the right opportunity that's going to make the rest of my life no worries, and then I will take that class. This is not how anything works. And thank God Steve Jobs didn't do it that way, or otherwise we would never have many of these beautiful products that we have today. So thanks to Mr. Jobs, wherever you are, you really have more.
It's not just more at stake, but like you have more of the contributing ingredients, ingredients than you realize that you do. And if you want me to teach you in these three easy sessions, the actual workshop is, is Saturday, the 18th. It's going to be from 8am Pacific, which is 11 Eastern, to noon, Pacific, which is three Eastern. There will be a replay if you can't make all of the sessions, but you do have to sign up to receive it. I'm not just sending out the mass workshop to everyone. If you've signed up, you will receive it. All you need to do is go to the homepage of my website, joyful medium.com, it's really big right on there. The workshop is called Clear, confident and truly thriving, which is what I want for all of you. That is my wish for you through for the rest of this year and into next year and beyond. But the things that are holding you back come from inside of you, not from outside, not from someone not creating the opportunity for you, not validating you enough, not giving you the free pass, or the hand holding right you get to create that energetically. And a lot of it has to do with those past versions of you, that version of you that believes you need to show up as the underdog, that version of you that doesn't believe that you can have those greatest dreams and intentions for your life. And there's so much more to that piece of it. So we are going to be doing the actual tools of energetic alignment, so that you can learn, over time, to hold that energy, and you can replicate those tools over and over to align you, to help you understand when fear and resistance is showing up, what it's actually about, and if it's something that we need to do more work on, or something we can just put to the side and realign in a different way. Sometimes it can be that it doesn't have to all be arduous and painful and like marching up a hill. Once you learn what is actually going on and how much say or power that you actually have in all of this, you really can shift everything. So I hope that you will take this opportunity and join me for this free workshop. I hope that today's talk has helped you start thinking about it's not just the actions you take in the world. It's the beliefs underneath and the energy that you are emitting all of the time that will either line up those creative, cooperative components, right, the stuff you need to live into what you want, or hold them away. Because if your aura is not aligned in the best way you can hold away opportunities because you're not ready, you're not ready. So this workshop is going to teach you how to get ready. I hope you will join me. It is called Clear, confident and thriving. Check the link. Dot, wherever you're watching this, I'll pop the link in the show notes, and you can also get it right on the homepage of my website, joyful medium.com, I hope that this has helped you. I hope that this has been some food for thought, because I want everyone to start taking their power back in the best possible way, not in a way of fighting against but in a way of accepting who we are and really stepping into it like for real. So if you're on board with that, I hope I will see you on the 18th. Let me know how you like this episode and what else you are wanting to hear about. Oh, quickly I promised you I would tell you about my little thing that I'm doing. So for many years, I have decided I'm not going to buy outside coffee anymore. It's expensive. There's lots of reasons. So I've been trying to make at home coffee with, like, a really good biodegradable pod and all of that. And the truth is, it upsets my tummy, and espresso does not, and I just need that extra little boost. I've tried to do it in lots of natural ways, but this just works for me, and it's what I prefer, especially on days that I'm doing readings or that I have events in the evening or group readings coming into holiday time for me is often when lots of people want group readings and special events and things. So I have finally relinquished myself to the fact that I perform better as a human when I am caffeinated with specifically espresso. So I've invested, or the business is invested, in a lovely little starter espresso machine. So I am going to start making my own home coffees. But I said for this weekend, before it gets here, I am going to buy outside coffee and just get over it. But that is just something little and quirky that is going on with me. Let me know if you are a coffee drinker or tea drinker, if you have some different supplemental shake or energy drink that you like, or if water just does it for you. I do have some rules around my caffeine. It's usually like not past noon. So I can also sleep, because that's an important part. And if you guys are open to it, I want to do a kind of non traditional self care episode just around the corner, because I think this is the time of year in the. Fall when we need to start realigning in all of the ways. That's what created this episode as well, not waiting till the New Year, when we're exhausted and full of sugar and salt and when everything is dark and feels hard to move and January is always so much busier than I anticipated to be, for some reason. So if you are on board for that non traditional self care, let me know, and we'll do that episode as well. So I hope to see you on the 18th or one of the other workshops that I'll be having throughout the end of the year and the beginning of the year, because really, like, let's start shifting everything for real. It's available to you. You can do it. I believe in you. I see the power of you as a soul, and I will hold that energy for you so that you can see it yourself. Big hugs. Lots of love. Bye for now. From inside spirit speakeasy